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The First/Last (Last/First?) Day of School -- at 40
Reinvention as Professor and Student of Life
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In this issue: My First/Last (Last/First?) Day of School ā at 40
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My āSeniorā Back to School Moment This Week
Talk about a week of changes ā DAMN!!
Great changes, thank G-d.
We started out the week (Sunday morning) with a well-deserved two days and one night off with my wife for our 12th anniversary eating, drinking, hiking (did I mention eating) our way around the Galilee, staying the night at our favorite little zimmer (retreat) in Lavon.
[By the way, if you want to know the exact one, PM me. We want to keep it a secret among friends].
We REALLLLLLLY needed the R&R. Whatās a couple kilos of weight again among friends, LOL.
Amazing time, incredible views, surprisingly inventive cuisine (some of the best weāve ever had, which is saying something) in the most unusual of places.
A little moshav in the middle of nowhere with the best damn beef carpaccio Iāve ever had.
A vineyard we accidentally went to when the planned one turned out to be in an industrial park (UGH, who opens a wine room for tastings in an industrial park, when you have gorgeous mountains all over?!).
Spectacular wines and cheeses from a store we never heard of in Karmiel.
All happy, accidental discoveries.
And maybe a bit of rediscovery for ourselves and each other. G-d bless the kids, but itās hard sometimes to find a spark between work, errands and the endless rush.
Speaking quite frankly, itās been a really stressful few months, with the economy (at least for the HR consulting work) bearing down hard on project flow and the aftermath for business.
Not gonna lie, VERY stressful few months.
But thank G-d, something really awesome happened in the last 2-3 weeks.
I got the amazing opportunity to work with one of the best engineering universities in the world, basically the MIT of Israel - the Technion.
Itās considered the best AI research university in all of Europe (even though itās in Israel), among other things. Youāll be hearing all about the superlative things happening here soon.
Iāll be running their English language PR, with the opportunity to learn from some of the worldās most incredible and accomplished engineers, scientists and technologists.
Stay tuned - gonna be some incredible content coming from here soon, G-d willing :)
Just started on Tuesday and truly loving both the team, the campus, the energy here.
Never hurts to be among all the young people and the huge brains.
The Hebrew practice is quite useful, as well, even though most people (wrongly) presume I know none and default to English.
And then, thereās the second big change.
Yesterday, I also taught my first college class ā on Digital Marketing ā for Touro College Israel.
Pretty damn stressful to put a college course together basically from scratch in a couple days.
But where thereās a will, thereās a way. This is 7 hours a week for 6 weeks.
So far, so good :) Raving reviews from the students after the first class.
To say Iām exhausted from this week is a massive understatement.
Not nearly enough sleep. The relaxation was perhaps TOO relaxing.
These are really big changes in schedule, as well. Waking up at 6, while still sleeping at midnight after effectively EST hours.
No complaints here, G-d forbid. These are all huge blessings.
Still adjusting.
Wandering around the campus this week, I have to say, feels kind of surreal.
College was one of the most wonderful periods of my youth.
Being back on campus is a theme of my dreams from time to time, always bringing a smile.
Also, going from a sort of internal exile, where I basically work in English all day, mostly on EST hours, to working for a top Israeli institution, is huge shift in mentality.
[The EST hours and work are still here, worry not, LOL.]
Turns out the big bossās sister lives in my old hometown, Lexington, Kentucky.
Also, my literal next-door (ok, next-building) American neighbor works in the same department.
Small world.
Anyways, so the first/last day of school thing is real.
Our kids are finishing their school year in a few days.
I just started teaching school for the summer semester and am now working on a campus.
Still kind of feel like an overgrown college kid sometimes, LOL.
Hopping up and down the stairs, stopping to smell the roses.
Taking it all in, for once somewhat slowly.
The work is there and will ramp up quickly over the next week or two.
But for now, Iām just a new student on a big campus.
And it feels amazing.
And more than just a nice feeling, the harsh truth is thatā¦
If I hadnāt had 6-7 of the hardest months of my life just before thisā¦
I would have probably never given myself the chance to either work at such a place or to teach college.
Because I was stuck in a sort of mental trap of trying to spin my wheels faster and faster, while not really getting anywhere.
G-d bless my wife, sheās put up with enough of my constant agita over 12 years.
Sometimes, it takes a shock to the system to come to oneās senses and see the proverbial light.
And while Iāve had to reinvent myself to some degree, the work of PR is not only familiar, but a running theme through everything Iāve built to date.
Storytelling is a key ingredient in success in any industry, in any career or context.
I just get to do it now in part with the most incredible raw material imaginable - cutting edge science, technology and engineering.
The ākidsā (early 20-somethings) Iām teaching could be my own kids and are super eager to learn.
Theyāre all actually young mothers who are finishing their college degrees.
Iām teaching them with a lot of humor and practical examples, including a video of me with my voice dubbed over in an ambulance chaserās commercial.
We were talking about when traditional marketing works a lot better than digital (LOL, I was a big hit with Russian grandmothers on Brighton Beach for a summer back in the day).
The bottom line is, I love storytelling and I love teaching.
I get to do both now, while continuing my other work, just without the crazy pressure to produce.
As for the rest of my time, Iām still all about building a community of HR people and marketplace for them to monetize their knowledge and expertise.
Life is good, thank G-d. Even as summer usually means some sort of mini-war over here (see Jenin, Jenin), I have a LOT to be thankful for in life and do not take any of it for granted.
Especially my wife, Jennifer. Happy 12th anniversary, Darling!
And as for YOU, my friend, whereās your reinvention hiding in plain sight?
You donāt always need reinvent the wheel to reinvent yourself.
Nu, what are you waiting for?
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IN THE NEWS
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